African Americans Need to Travel

It really is not an option. Travel is education.  Education in the United States in the schools that I attended erased the history of African Americans. They have since added some information in recent years, but with limits.  The only black history stories I ever heard talked about were of 3 or 4 blacks who were successful.  My history was a white world. The only black people in the world lived in Africa and in the United States.  I did not know about the black people who lived in places like the Fiji Islands, Venezuela, Chile, Nicaragua, Argentina, and many other countries. 

When I traveled to Germany in 1961, I saw art in the major churches showing African kings and queens for the first time. It was while in Germany that the stories my mom had read to us about African royalty changed from fiction to reality.  There are some places in the world where our history is not hidden but proudly being told.

We think we understand what being enslaved meant, but the deeper meaning of what really happened to our history is not limited to chains and shackles.  Our existence was stolen and is still being stifled and mocked.  Now, by just wanting to know about our very existence and our rights as human beings, we are stereotyped as socialist, communist or un-American.  No one wants to discuss it, but we are still living in a country where the majority population feels that we don’t belong there.

You will never know and understand the full tragedy of slavery, prejudice and hate crimes perpetrated against African people who were transported worldwide, bound in chains, unless you travel.  Nor will you be able to make a change in how others view us if they never see us.  If you travel you will see our African brothers from a variety of countries living and traveling all over the world.  We North Americans of African descendent have the greater freedom of travel than our brothers and sisters from other countries.   When we travel we are ambassadors of understanding and information as to who we are and how we play an important role in these times.  If we do not travel, the understanding of us as a people is lost.  How can people get to know us if we don’t reach out and travel? We are better equipped financially and politically to travel the world.  People all over the world think that all North Americans are white people because that is who they see.

Your children and you would benefit from coming to visit not only Costa Rica but Central America in general.  Sure, you might travel to the Bahamas, but usually you go to a fancy hotel, go on a few tours and purchase things at the Straw Market.  Very few tourists actually get to know the Bahamian people and their culture.  We go on these safe trips, where people speak our language and practice our customs.

Costa Rica at one time was considered a 3rd world country and now it is classified as a 2nd world country.  In Costa Rica and in many of the other countries of Central America, young people from Europe and many young white students from the US and Canada come to visit, work and study.  They learn the language, the culture and customs of a people different from themselves. These opportunities are open to black students as well.

At the moment, I’m having a disagreement with my son about my staff in our B&B here in Costa Rica not speaking English.  He has a good point about it, but I want my staff to speak their language when we have guests.  I want them to be patient with the guest. In the morning I don’t want them saying “good morning”, I want them to say “buenas dias”.  I’ve already adjusted many things we offer to the North American customary life style.  Our guest can order an American-style breakfast; our rooms have familiar amenities that make our guest feel comfortable.  But it would be an injustice for me to not expose our visitors to the customs and language of the country they are visiting.  Most of my guests did not take a trip to Costa Rica to enjoy what they already have in the USA or Canada.

There is so much to explore and to learn here. For example, understanding the difference in the foods we eat and why we eat the foods we eat.  Some fruits you see here in Costa Rica look strange to us but they are as common as the pear in our country.  And then there is the wildlife – I’ve seen many strange looking animals here, but of course Costa Rica has a tropical climate. Many of the animals here are ‘cousins’ of common animals we see in the US, only they are adapted to this climate. And I’ve never seen so many different types of birds, and flowering plants, and styles of houses, and clever solutions to dealing with common problems. It is amazing, just when you think you have seen almost everything, more new things come to light.

Costa Rica isn’t just beaches and canopy walks. There is a vibrant black culture on the Caribbean coast in the Province of Limon. What is amazing to me is that African Americans come here and tell me they are not going to Limon because it is dangerous.  Let me ask you – who told you it was dangerous?  Compared to what? Limon is wonderful and there is nothing to fear.  There is no part of Costa Rica that I could put into comparison with what happens in cities in the US.   If you come to Costa Rica, please include Limon in your travel plans and rediscover a rich part of our heritage. Educate and enrich your life by traveling!

Traveling Changes Your World

The first time I ever traveled anywhere without one of my parents was in 1961, when I was 18 years old. It was also the first time I got on an airplane. My destination was Germany. A young handsome soldier who was in the Army had given me an engagement ring just prior to shipping off to Germany.  We had been engaged for one year and he decided that he wanted to get married before his tour of duty was up. 

It is hard to remember what was more exciting – the thought of getting married or the trip to Germany. The day I left Omaha, Nebraska, you would have thought a movie star was taking off from that small airport.  Every relative I can think of was there sending me off.  It was one of the most exciting days of my life.  I had to fly from Omaha to Chicago and then to New York.  When the plane took off from New York, excitement began to set in about my new adventure in life.  I never really thought about people speaking a different language until I had to change planes in Belgium.  While on the flight from Belgium to Frankfurt, Germany, they gave me a meal on the plane that was lox, cream cheese and a bagel.  To a Nebraska girl, the lox looked like raw fish.  It was at that moment that I began realizing that I was not only leaving my town and my country, I was entering into another world.

It is very hard to visualize a different world, when your world has been the town you live in and the communities surrounding you.  Even though my family traveled to California, Missouri and Tennessee, I still saw some of the same things in these areas as I saw at home in Omaha.  There was not a lot of difference – the dress was the same, the language was the same – the only thing different that I remember is that in Tennessee they ate grits.

In 1961 there were no African Americans working at the airline counters, none were working at the ticket counter and there were absolutely no black pilots. The only black person I saw was the guy handling the luggage.  From Omaha to Germany I saw one black person who worked in the airport.  When I got on that airplane my world turned white and the first black person I saw was Charles when he picked me up at the airport.

What a world it was. That first experience of meeting the challenges of the unknown are unforgettable.  Someone spoke to me in German and all I could do was smile and hunch my shoulders to indicate that I did not understand what was being said.  They eventually sent one of the airport attendants who spoke English over to help me.

It was then and there that I was hooked for life on traveling.  My world became so much bigger. Traveling is exciting, educational, rewarding and liberating. Things I’d read in books about Germany and about people in other countries just seemed to burst open in my mind.  I was never a good student in geography or social studies, but, if after that experience it would have been possible to take those courses again, I would have done great.

This is why when people write and ask me “how are black people treated in Costa Rica?” I almost laugh.  My world changed from seeing some black people (because in Omaha at that time, black people were less than 1% of the population), to seeing all white people.  Plus the people spoke a different language, one I did not understand.

Now we are living in a time where you cannot board an airplane and not see black people.  The thought that we would now stay home and not visit other countries because we are unsure of how we would be treated is amazing to me.

I never will forget, when I was in Germany, the old lady who asked me, “did we grow tails after dark”.  She asked me that because that is what the white soldiers had told the German people about the African American soldier.  You see, the African American soldier was restricted from being off-post or off-base after dark.  The Germans wanted to know why and the white soldiers told them it was because the African American soldiers grew tails after dark.  In order to prove myths like this and others as lies, we need to travel and tell our own story.

We so often lump everyone in the same basket. Our opinion is that everyone who speaks Spanish is the same, with very little variations.  People who live in New York or Miami know the difference but most people outside of those states believe that all Hispanics are Mexican.  A lot of my visitors come over looking for Mexican food only to be very disappointed.  Costa Ricans do not eat hot spicy foods.  If you go into many of their restaurants they do not have black pepper on the table.  There are some Costa Ricans that add a little spice but not many.  Costa Ricans are more reserved in their dress and their actions than Mexicans.  Costa Ricans are not “party people” in comparison to many other Latin cultures.  Their music has a similar beat but they are a little more conservative.

Traveling teaches you so much about people and their way of life. There are a lot of things young people would enjoy when visiting Costa Rica. There is so much to explore and to learn.  Unfortunately, most of our visitors go for things that are tourist “fun” attractions and hardly ever venture off the tourism path.  Costa Rica is much more than zip lines and the beach. Costa Rica is exciting, and traveling here will give you an opportunity to discover the people, the climate, the culture, the country, and its rich history.

Costa Rica living


If you clicked on this blog, then you are among the millions of people looking at the possibility of coming to Costa Rica to live. My husband Charles was a dreamer, every time we went on vacation he would fall in love with the place. We were always looking for that final destination after retirement. It never mattered where we went, Charles would mentally settle there. We never realized that one of the reasons we had contemplated purchasing a home, was because we were mentally operating in the vacation mode. When you go on a vacation from that nine to five grind we call a job, everything looks good. Commitments, obligations and responsibilities bring on, attitudinal change.
When you are on vacation things look so great, you are happy, carefree, relaxed and at peace with the world.
Costa Rica is a great place to visit. As an American you have to adjust to how things are done.
Socialized government, most of us from the US don’t know what that means. We are not mandated by law to do most things. We can decide our course of life and pursue it, often without limitations or challenges. We have the freedom to be free, sure we have challenges. As Americans we have a shoot, kill and eat attitude. We are Johnny get your gun and Annie Oakleys, all rolled in one. We are from the wild, wild west. If we don’t like something we get a sign and start walking to Washington, D.C.
Costa Rica is a great place to live. The climate is absolutely the best I’ve found. The people are genuinely nice.
The biggest mistake most of us make when we come to Costa Rica is making our assumptions. You can’t assume. Their laws are different, we are not used to them and it is very important to investigate before investing. If I want to drive my van to Panama, I need to get permission.
Ladies, ladies, ladies, male chauvinism is alive and well here in Costa Rica. The law of two twentie for one forty is not a saying here, it is a fact. The women here are still washing their husbands shoes and getting up at 4:00 am to prepare his breakfast. Oh yes, plus many of them are working now.
I laugh when people call me asking questions about living here. Most of them don’t want to know the truth. They want me to paint some sort of vision from heaven picture, where everything is right with the world. Costa Rica is not heaven, the same devil running around in the US, also lives here. The only difference is he speaks Spanish.
My consultations are free, but if you come to my B&B here in Grecia, there is a charge for your room.
I’ve been living and doing business in Costa Rica successfully for 10 years, and it amazes me, how many Americans come here to live based on information on the intosta Rica we have not had a drive by shooting.
It’s been an experience living in Costa Rica. This is the only country I’ve lived in, that a stop sign means go. Costa Ricans are discretionary abiders of traffic laws.
Every year I vow not to tell people what it is really like to live in Costa Rica, they just don’t want to hear the truth.